When it comes to planning a wedding ceremony, there are countless decisions to make, from the flowers to the music to the seating arrangement.
Among these decisions is one that often goes overlooked until the last minute: where should the celebrant stand during the ceremony?
Many vendors, particularly celebrants and photographers, have strong opinions on this matter. Some argue for one position over another, claiming it's the "right" way to do it. However, the truth is that there are advantages and disadvantages to each option, and what's most important is finding what works best for you as a couple.
When you sit down with me to discuss your ceremony, I'll lay out the various options for you to consider, and the decision rests with you, but it's helpful to understand the different possibilities before making your choice.
Most couples choose to have me standing with them at the start of the ceremony, and then I move off to the side, while I tell their story.
Although I need to be close to you for the ring exchange and legal vows, I am nowhere to be seen when it's time for you to seal your marriage with a kiss.
Ultimately, the decision of where the celebrant should stand during the ceremony is a personal one, and there is no right or wrong answer. What matters most is that you feel comfortable and confident with your choice, knowing that it reflects your vision for your wedding day
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A good photographer will respect your choice and work with it to capture all the special moments of your ceremony, regardless of where the celebrant is standing.
In the end, whether your celebrant stands with you, off to the side, or somewhere in between, what matters most is the love and commitment you share as a couple. Trust your instincts, communicate openly with your celebrant and photographer, and your ceremony is sure to be a beautiful reflection of your relationship.
Photos by Simone Harris Photography (a good photographer)
