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Writer's pictureRobyn Paterson

Notice of Intended Marriage Information (Part 1)

Understanding the Notice of Intended Marriage Part 1: Who You Can and Cannot Marry in Australia

When you fill out the Notice of Intended Marriage form in Australia, one of the questions you’ll encounter is: “Are you related to each other?” This question serves to ensure compliance with Australian marriage laws, which strictly regulate who can and cannot marry.

Notice of Intended Marriage - a document that must be lodged with your celebrant at least one month before you can marry.
Notice of Intended Marriage

Who You CANNOT Marry:

The laws are clear about close family relations. You cannot marry:

  • Your mother

  • Your father



  • Your son

  • Your daughter

  • Your grandmother

  • Your grandfather

  • Your brother

  • Your sister

This rule applies even if the relationship is through adoption. The laws are designed to prevent marriages between direct family members to avoid potential genetic issues and maintain social norms regarding family relationships.

Age Restrictions:

You also cannot marry anyone under the age of 18 without court approval. This regulation is in place to protect minors and ensure that individuals entering into marriage are doing so willingly and with full understanding of the commitment.

Who You CAN Marry:

Surprisingly to some, Australian law allows marriage between more distant relatives. This includes:

  • First cousins

  • Aunts

  • Uncles

  • Nieces

  • Nephews

These relationships are considered legally permissible for marriage. This aspect of the law may surprise some people, especially those from cultures or regions where such marriages might be frowned upon or legally prohibited.

Cultural and Legal Perspectives:

The rules around marriage reflect both biological considerations and cultural values. While the prohibition on marrying close relatives is almost universal, the acceptance of marriages between more distant relatives varies widely around the world. In some cultures, marriage between first cousins is common and even encouraged to keep wealth and property within the family. In others, it is less common and even stigmatized.

Final Thoughts:

Understanding these rules is crucial when planning a marriage in Australia. The regulations are in place to protect individuals and uphold social norms, but they also reflect a blend of cultural traditions and legal standards. If you're planning to marry and are unsure about your eligibility, it's always a good idea to consult with a registered marriage celebrant to ensure you meet all legal requirements.

Does any of this surprise you? Many people are often taken aback by the fact that while close family marriages are prohibited, marrying first cousins or other more distant relatives is legally acceptable in Australia. It highlights the diversity and complexity of marriage laws and how they can vary from one culture or country to another.

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